5 Cultural Humility, Social Determinants, and Disparities in Pediatric Palliative Care
Danielle Jonas, Alexis Morvant, and Sara Munoz-Blanco
My humanity is bound up in yours for we can only be human together. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
desmond tutu
Introduction
Pediatric palliative care (PPC) is known for its holistic approach in the care of patients and families facing a serious illness. Diversity is recognized by the Institute of Medicine as a core value in healthcare.1 Human identity is complex, nuanced, and diverse, and it may include such factors as race and ethnicity, cultural values and norms, religious or spiritual beliefs, cumulative personal or familial experiences, and social environment.1 As is the case in the adult world, various studies across pediatrics have elucidated the ways in which social disparities in healthcare directly impact access to critical aspects of PPC such as goals of care conversations, continuity in care, symptom management, resources, end-of-life care, and bereavement support.2,3,4,5 For example, in their study out of California, Johnston and colleagues found that pediatric patients with complex chronic conditions (CCCs) who identified as Hispanic, as well as teenage/young adult patients, were two populations that were more likely to die in the hospital as compared to other children.5 Further research is needed to understand if dying in the hospital was in line with these patients’ goals or if they died in the hospital because of barriers to accessing alternative resources.3,5
Recognition of each patient’s and family’s human identity is a central part of high-quality PPC; it allows us to optimize relational building and trust and align family identity to goals of care and interventions. It is important to recognize that many human identity factors are also sources of disparities in healthcare, whereby families from minority ethnic and/or religious backgrounds and economically disadvantaged communities receive lower quality care. PPC is not exempt from these disparities in care. In addition, power imbalance and differences between providers’ and families’ values and social environment can be a source of conflict that can negatively affect the provider–family relationship. The practice of cultural humility invites us to reflect on our beliefs and biases and exercise genuine openness with and curiosity about learning about “the other.” This can be applied within the culture of medicine with the hope of addressing factors that contribute to disparities in care.
In this chapter, we provide suggestions for how to assess communication preferences of pediatric patients and families, a framework on how to be culturally humble and curious, practical tips regarding the clinical PPC role, factors that contribute to disparities in PPC access, and an exploration of the concept of cultural humility within the social context of PPC. Figure 5.1 illustrates how social disparities and cultural humility impact provider care of patients and families, incorporating the identity factors of all parties involved.
Communication in the Context of Social/Cultural Norms
Communication as a Pillar of Pediatric Palliative Care
Communication is a pillar of palliative care. Breakdowns in communication due to language barriers can have detrimental effects on patient care. Awareness of our communication style, verbal and nonverbal, as well as being present during patient/family encounters is key to minimizing communication barriers. Being present, for instance, can prompt us to check in with families for understanding or when clarifications are needed. For example, many Latino parents nod while listening to providers. This nodding can be misinterpreted as agreeing with and/or understanding the information being provided, when in reality, it is often a sign of respect based on the cultural value of respeto, which emphasizes deferential behavior based on a person’s authority, such as a physician. Nodding may be used by the family to let the provider know they’re listening as opposed to understanding all or agreeing with the content.
Assumptions can influence the way we share and present information to patients and families and other medical providers. Furthermore, if inquiry and assessment of information are not carried out, misinterpretation of diagnosis, prognosis, interpretation of symptom burden, miscommunication, and misunderstanding of families’ beliefs and values can occur. It is imperative that providers also consider the power structures at play, recognizing that parents may feel ashamed or embarrassed to ask questions, especially when they perceive that the provider assumes that they know or understand terminology and/or basic physiology. Providers should err on the side of overexplaining as opposed to assuming knowledge and understanding.
Assessment of communication preferences regarding the transmitting of information is crucial. For example, does the family prefer to talk about the big picture, or are they more detail-oriented? For some families, learning the details can provide the opportunity for anticipatory guidance and thus promote coping, preparation, and planning, as families focus on day-to-day changes or signs of disease progression. However, for other families, listening to the specific details of the care plan may promote anxiety, and, therefore, they may prefer to focus on more long-term factors and may appreciate the opportunity to talk through potential scenarios regarding how their child’s disease may progress and/or consideration of larger medical decisions that may need to be made in the future.
Exploring families’ preferences about the timing, manner, and place for receiving information is important; for example, visual learning via pictures or verbal communication, family-centered rounds, detailed care plans, or big picture synthesis. Attending to patient and family preferences can promote rapport-building, trust, and shared decision-making over time. Optimization of communication is a critical component when providing culturally tailored, family-centered care.
The Role of Medical Interpreters in the Delivery of Culturally Sensitive Care
Optimizing communication between providers and families in the context of social/cultural norms can also include the use of medical interpreters. Language barriers can hinder shared decision-making, rapport-building with patients and families, health quality, symptom management, utilization of services, and end-of-life outcomes.6 Effective medical interpretation in the hospital is a crucial aspect of culturally sensitive care for patients and families with limited English proficiency.6 A systematic review of the literature found that patients with limited English proficiency had poorer discussions regarding quality goals of care and end-of-life care when professional medical interpreters were not used.6
Furthermore, several studies suggest that pre-meetings between providers and interpreters during which topics and terminology could be discussed and explained were important in optimizing goals-of-care conversations during encounters with patients and families.6 Including medical interpreters along the care continuum can help to ensure that their perspective is fully informed to the nuances of the patient’s condition, as well as the patient and family’s framework, needs, and goals. Some studies have illuminated how interpreters may filter prognostic information at times, which may be due to cultural norms and/or fear of upsetting families or taking away hope.7 Clarification of how prognostic information as well as other sensitive topics are interpreted within the social/cultural constructs of the family can improve medical interpretation and overall patient care. At the conclusion of meetings, it may also be helpful to debrief with the medical interpreter to gain insight into their own experiences and exchange feedback. For instance, an interpreter could point out, “when you said X, it did not really translate well.” The debrief could also be an opportunity to check in on the interpreter’s well-being and offer support if it was a particularly challenging or emotional meeting. This debrief can facilitate emotional processing and acknowledgment of their own pain in being the messenger delivering difficult news.
Assessing Communication Preferences and Expectations in Pediatric Palliative Care
Patient and family communication preferences in PPC can be influenced by a variety of factors including culture of decision-making, religious or spiritual beliefs, ideas around communication about death with children and as a family, as well as global notions about suffering, pain, and the meaning of death.8 One study found that a majority of parents of children with cancer preferred detailed, longitudinal prognostic information and verbalized a preference for more information rather than less.9 Another study found that pediatric organ failure and transplant physicians do not regularly discuss end-of-life and prognostic information and that further research is needed to better understand how to optimize compassionate and honest information with patients and families within this population.10
Concise clinical assessment and rapport-building over time are crucial components for determining how each family system and each individual family member makes decisions. For example, some families may feel that it is best for the parents to receive all information before any information is shared with their child; whereas some families may prefer that providers be the ones to update the child about their condition. Adolescents and young adults (AYA) may or may not want to receive all information, even serious information, alone, and some may want to receive all information even before their parents. It is important to assess this dynamic in the AYA population.
Decision-Making Styles
Decision-making style can be influenced by culture and religious/spiritual beliefs as well as by familial norms and/or past life experiences. Styles are likely to be unique to each family or individual and can vary depending on the magnitude and type of decision. Assessing a family’s decision-making style early on in the relationship can foster trust, as the family will likely appreciate that their preferences and needs are being considered. Trust has been shown to influence decision-making style in adults, with low-level trust resulting in more autonomous decision-making preference (i.e., less shared decision-making).11 Providers should carefully assess who the patient and family consider to be part of their decision-making “team.” It is generally accepted that in Western culture the family unit tends to consist of immediate family members. Decision-making, therefore, may be up to the family nucleus, usually the parents and/or primary caregiver. In other cultures, this is not always the case. For example, Familismo, a Latino cultural construct, emphasizes the commitment and loyalty to family, immediate as well as extended.12 Thus, some Latino families may prefer to consult with multiple family members to reach consensus before making a medical decision, which, if not known beforehand, can lead to delays in care and decision-making.12 On the other hand, for some families of Latino or Asian descent, decision-making relies on the primary caregiver, usually the mother.8 It is important to maintain a sense of cultural curiosity and avoid assumptions based on culture/ethnic background alone and clarify with the family who is/are key decision-maker(s). This can allow for timely planning of family meetings and goals of care setting, ensuring that all key players are present for important discussions.
Various factors may influence family engagement in medical decision-making, such as the opinions or preferences of a religious leader or past familial experiences with medical decision-making and/or end-of-life care. It may be helpful to assess if the family has had to make other difficult decisions for their child or another loved one in the past and to understand what was most supportive to them as they were faced with that decision or what was problematic in the past. It may be helpful to understand if they preferred a concrete medical recommendation or if there were other stakeholders who were involved in the process, such as extended family members or a religious leader.
In addition, some families may oppose involving the child in decision-making, which can cause significant distress among providers, especially for those patients able to participate in decision-making from a developmental standpoint. Generally speaking, pediatricians and other pediatric professionals tend to assume that children who function cognitively as a 7-year-old or higher should be given the opportunity to be included in their care and assent to medical decisions if they desire to do so. However, some families are resistant to involving their child in information-sharing, particularly when their child has a life-limiting illness. This resistance to involve the child can be due to cultural factors (children are not involved in decision-making, period) or to religious/spiritual beliefs, where speaking the truth out loud may cause the child to give up or the sickness to worsen.13 Assessing decision-making style can result in better quality of care, family satisfaction, and trust. When tensions are particularly high around how and when to include the patient in the decision-making process, it may be helpful to consult additional resources such as the ethics committee, patient relations, or the hospital-based legal department.
Considering and Assessing Health Literacy
In considering how to most effectively communicate with patients and families in a culturally and socially sensitive manner, providers must consider health literacy and developmental stages. Health literacy is defined as “the degree to which individuals have the capacity to obtain, process and understand basic health information and services needed to make appropriate health decisions.”14 The literature highlights that risk factors for low rates of health literacy include lower socioeconomic status (SES), limited English-language proficiency, and identification with minority racial/ethnic groups.14 One comprehensive national study found that a significant portion of parents in the United States have limited health literacy and recommended that efforts to reduce literacy demand on parents would improve overall healthcare for children.14
In practicing culturally sensitive PPC, providers must be aware of individual health literacy levels and be willing and able to tailor communication given variations in literacy level. For example, providers commonly assume that parents know the name and function of each human organ system. Anecdotally, authors of this chapter have encountered parents who do not understand the basic functions of some organ systems affected by their child’s illness. This was uncovered by explicitly asking parents if they knew what x organ did in the body; this anecdotal discovery has been a consistent experience across several diverse institutions. Therefore, when communicating the severity of a child’s illness, a careful explanation regarding how and why the child’s organ is not functioning properly may help to bridge communication and facilitate shared medical decision-making. Routinely including such explanations in discussions may help to ameliorate feelings of shame and embarrassment for parents who may be hesitant to ask questions regarding information that they are assumed to know. Child life specialists, child psychologists, and social workers can be particularly helpful in explaining serious illness to children and adolescents.
Future Clinical Development of Culturally Sensitive Communication in Pediatric Palliative Care
In recent years there has been a shift in medicine from cultural competency to cultural humility. Cultural competency is focused on learning specifics about different cultures and then applying that generalized knowledge to culturally diverse healthcare encounters. However, some argue that this lends itself to stereotyping and ignoring the diversity of individuals within cultures.15 Cultural humility, on the other hand, invites providers to reflect on individual beliefs and biases (i.e., personal culture) and exercise genuine openness with and curiosity about the “other” (i.e., our patient/family). Within the culture of medicine this is referred to as culturally humble care or cultural humility.16 There is limited information in the literature regarding how to best practice cultural and social humility and curiosity within the field of PPC. Further development of interventions and clinical practices that support patients of diverse backgrounds is needed.7 This is especially pertinent in this field, as prognostic communication, the balance of hope and medical information, and end-of-life care are influenced by culture and religion. The tendency toward medical Western values and ethics does not always meet the needs of diverse patient populations.7 If possible and as appropriate, it may also be beneficial to involve a clinician from the family’s cultural background or consult with a provider or community member who may serve as a cultural ambassador to help navigate the clinical situation.
Cultural Humility
Palliative care as a specialty aims to provide culturally humble care to all patients and their families. Recently, the term “cultural humility” has almost universally replaced “cultural competency,” though at times the terms are mistakenly used interchangeably. So, what is cultural humility, exactly? Foronda and colleagues performed a concept analysis on the term “cultural humility” and described it as a life-long process with attributes of (1) openness (being open to new ideas, including interacting with others from different cultural backgrounds), (2) self-awareness (“What do I think/believe/feel about x-y-z? What are my implicit biases?”), (3) being egoless (being humble, neutral, and viewing everyone as equals), (4) embracing supportive interactions (having positive human interactions), and (5) self-reflection and critique (“What went well in that interaction, and what can I improve on?”).16
Some providers suggest that cultural differences frequently present barriers to providing quality palliative care.17 Cultural, religious, and spiritual norms, values, and beliefs, as well as our social environment and past experiences shape human perceptions of the world, including what happens to individuals and their families. These factors influence how individuals make decisions and perceive quality care as opposed to care that does not feel helpful or therapeutic. Therefore, working with, instead of against, these differences is imperative in optimizing the care of seriously ill children. Because cultural humility discourages overgeneralization in clinical care, suggested language is highlighted in Table 5.1.
Table 5.1 Suggested language for culturally humble encounters
Open-ended questions | Purpose of question |
How would you prefer that information is shared with your family? | Communication preferences, rapport-building |
How does your family make medical decisions? Who would you like to be present for larger discussions? | Medical decision making, rapport-building |
Has your family had to make big medical decisions in the past? What was helpful during that time? | Medical decision making/communication preferences |
What gives you strength? | Sources of support/faith |
How does your family think about your loved one’s illness? What words does your family use when discussing your loved one’s illness? | Language about illness, meaning of illness |
We know that medical information can be confusing and overwhelming, especially when you’re hearing a lot of information at once. What clarifying questions do you have about what is happening in your child’s body? | Health literacy, communication preferences, rapport-building |
How would you describe your identity? (For child or family) | Cultural awareness, identity formation |
How does your family think about the idea of suffering? What does suffering mean to you? | Cultural awareness, language about illness |
Have you ever heard of palliative care before? What was the context? | Health literacy, cultural awareness |
How does your family talk about what happens to a person after they die? | Cultural awareness, communication preferences |
How has your child’s illness impacted your life outside of the hospital? | Whole-person care, rapport-building |
How are you managing the day to day? | Whole-person care, rapport-building |
Tell me about your life/your child’s life outside of the hospital? | Identity formation, rapport-building |
What are you hoping for at this time? | Sources of support/faith, cultural awareness, rapport-building, health literacy |
What are you most worried about right now? | Sources of support/faith, cultural awareness, rapport-building, health literacy |
Does it feel helpful to talk about what could happen after your loved one dies? What would be important to you and your family during that time? Who would you want to be there? | Sources of support/faith, cultural awareness |
How has your family been communicating about your child’s illness? Would you like your child to be included within serious discussions with their healthcare team? | Communication preferences, rapport-building |
Patient and Family Interpretation of Illness
The interpretation of illness also varies between families and is usually rooted in culture, past life experiences, and religious or spiritual beliefs. In some traditions, families may believe that illness, suffering, pain, or even death are the result of bad karma (an imbalance of energies within us, as well as with others) or are consequences of a past sin. It is important for the clinical team to inquire about the patient’s and family’s understanding and interpretation of illness, symptoms, and death. Providers could consider asking a question like, “how do you think about your loved one’s illness?” Or “how does your family talk about what happens to someone after they die?” It is equally important to validate and affirm these perceptions even if the clinical team does not share the same belief system because it helps the family feel heard and understood.
Having this information can aid providers in tailoring care and information to a family’s specific needs. This is particularly helpful when interacting with pediatric patients and/or siblings as it is crucial to offer information or services that align with family language and beliefs. For instance, a family may be more accepting of chaplaincy services if their interpretation of their child’s illness, symptoms, or death has deep spiritual roots or themes. However, there are some families who identify as highly religious but prefer the presence of their own religious leaders. A critical piece of this assessment is to explore the experience of suffering and create opportunity for patients and their families to communicate their subjective experience of suffering and the meaning behind it. Some patients and families may be focused on physical suffering in the form of symptoms, whereas others may express existential suffering about losses related to illness or spiritual suffering in the form of anger or disappointment that their god has allowed them to be sick. Additionally, some pediatric patients may be selective in how they express their physical symptoms depending on family dynamics and beliefs as well as what suffering represents within their family system.
Interpretation of illness, coping, and bereavement can also be influenced by individual family factors. Families with prior loss or previous hospice experience may be more or less amenable to palliative care services depending on their history. Some families who have had previous hospice experience may have a challenging time differentiating between palliative care and hospice, worrying that palliative care may carry the same prognostic implications as hospice did previously. Parents who have lost another child because of a genetic condition may be familiar with the interdisciplinary team approach and/or the trajectory/prognosis of their child’s condition. Parents may have access to external resources, such as online support groups or relationships with other parents who have a child with the same or a similar diagnosis. Ensuring a full bio-psycho-social-spiritual assessment early in the care process can be helpful in assessing the family’s experience of services and access to support systems. Palliative care providers are trained to compassionately ask about previous loss and offer families opportunity to reflect on these past experiences and process how their grief or trauma may be influencing their current illness experience. Interdisciplinary providers should be aware of how past experiences with loss and/or trauma may impact individual and family coping with serious illness.
Pillars of Cultural Humility
When aiming to optimize rapport-building, it is best to ask questions in a compassionate and curious manner, free of judgment or assumptions. Understanding general notions regarding specific cultures/ethnic groups can be helpful in creating awareness of important differences. Asking questions guided by past experience in caring for patients and families of diverse backgrounds can enrich clinical understanding of general cultural constructs, thus promoting cultural competency. Using this general knowledge in conjunction with cultural curiosity can aid in avoiding stereotyping while also maintaining openness and awareness to diverse patient and family care needs throughout the illness trajectory and into bereavement.
Cultural humility not only applies to potential cultural, religious, and social differences between providers and families; it also applies to the inherent power imbalance of the provider–patient/family relationship as most people consider physicians to be highly educated, power leaders in society. The pillars of cultural humility—self-reflection of our beliefs, values, and biases and openness toward the other—allows providers to forgo some control, creating opportunity to optimize rapport-building. This approach will enhance family involvement in care, decrease the power imbalance, and maximize shared decision-making and overall communication.
In summary, cultural humility entails personal reflection regarding one’s own ideas, beliefs, implicit and explicit biases, and cultural constructs, as well as those observed through experience and exposure. Cultural humility is likely to improve the quality of PPC for vulnerable patients who are living with serious illness and their families.
Practical Pearls for the PPC Provider
Sitting with Suffering and Uncertainty
PPC interventions often entail intangible interactions such as sitting with suffering or being present with the patient and family in the processing of their grief. PPC providers are able to acknowledge the uniqueness of each experience as a means of tending to clinical and existential needs with the goal of optimizing quality of life in a patient-centered manner.
For some patients and families, optimization of quality of life may include the opportunity for story-sharing of past experiences from life before an illness or hospitalization. Some individuals may benefit from feeling as though their providers are informed of their child’s or sibling’s identity outside of the hospital. Some patients may themselves benefit from describing their life, skills, experiences, relationships, and abilities from before their illness as a way of sharing other aspects of their identity and purpose to their providers and loved ones. For some families, it can be helpful for care teams to meet and interact with people from their personal lives. However, for others, it may feel important to keep their medical team and personal lives completely separate as means of preserving dignity and privacy. The best way to know what is most helpful to families with regards to rapport-building is to ask how the clinical team can be most helpful in their involvement.
Relationship-building between PPC providers and patients and their families is unique in that these relationships can last for months or years at a time as the team follows the child throughout the course of their disease trajectory. As PPC providers engage with the patient and family throughout the illness experience, they often become an integral part of the care, decision-making, and overall medical experience, getting to know family friends and extended family members. Cultural factors may influence how and when patients and families are open to this relationship-building over time as some families may be more vulnerable in their openness and desire for support, whereas others may perceive the relationship to be invasive or representative of poor prognosis. It is imperative that PPC providers be aware of and flexible with the differences in desire for support and how this need can ebb and flow over time. Families may find palliative care services more or less helpful throughout the course of the child’s illness trajectory.
Providers should consider that the definition of “family” is according to the family. It may also be the case that family members may not be helpful in their ability to offer support during highly stressful times or may have estranged relationships from the patient and/or their family, situations that may in fact add to the level of stress. Providers should be diligent about documenting, communicating, and respecting who each individual family considers to be part of their family and support structure, regardless of biological relationship.
Medical Versus Spiritual Coping
Another crucial role for the palliative care team is to support discussions of medical information that exist alongside spiritual beliefs and coping. Often, families cope with difficult news by balancing their processing of medical information with enhanced religious faith and belief in a Greater Being and the power of prayer. The ability to balance worries with some semblance of hope and faith is nuanced. Expressions of faith and hope in the face of a terminal medical diagnosis can often be confused with a lack of understanding regarding the provider’s assessment.18 Furthermore, providers may feel inclined to reinforce their prognostic indications in the face of hope in the form of badgering or repeating information multiple times to “ensure” the family has heard a prognosis, which some family members may perceive as unhelpful or even disrespectful.
Communicating permission for continued parental hope is crucial for parental functioning. When difficult information is being shared or processed, the optimal provider response is to sit with suffering and reflect a position of comfort and presence during moments of silence. In some cultures, the ability to be present with expressions of grief is considered to be supportive and helpful. However, in other cultures, individuals prefer to express their grief privately. Palliative care providers can explicitly ask how to be most helpful during these moments if they are unsure of family or individual preference.
End-of-Life Care and Bereavement: Clinical Implications
When a child dies it is reported to be the “worst loss” that a human being can experience.19 Culturally sensitive care and decision-making support is imperative in optimizing parental and family bereavement outcomes.19 The literature highlights how parental demographics can affect the grief experience and overall bereavement outcomes.
Given the high risk for poor grief outcomes and prevalence of posttraumatic stress disorder, bereavement support is particularly important.19 The majority of children die in hospitals, and, unfortunately, very few hospitals offer quality bereavement programs that are institutionally funded, meaning that families must turn to their own communities, resulting in the secondary loss of a connection with familiar hospital-based teams and longitudinal relationships.19 Future prospective studies looking at this particular patient population could be helpful in fully grasping the nuances of this complexity.
In a similar manner, culture and religious/spiritual practices can also have a meaningful influence on how families process grief and bereavement. For some families, performing certain spiritual or religious rituals prior to the death of the child may be important. Burial within 24-48 hours of death is preferred, and cremation is usually forbidden in Islamic and Jewish traditions, for example. Catholic families may want their loved one to receive the sacrament of the sick and Holy Communion by a Catholic priest. In addition, autopsies, which are often valued by providers, may not be acceptable for some families due to cultural or religious beliefs, as in Hinduism or Jehovah’s Witnesses religions. The information we may obtain from an autopsy, which can support healing or even genetic information that could influence future children of an affected family, must be balanced with respect for that family’s cultural or religious/spiritual beliefs.
Organ donation can help some families find purpose and meaning in their loved one’s death, which can aid the bereavement process. However, anecdotal experience highlights how discussion about organ donation may result in an added layer of distrust of the medical system, as some minority groups worry that their care may be compromised for the sake of saving the lives of more advantaged groups. In general, facilitation of religious and spiritual rituals that are important to the family can be enhanced by providers remaining culturally curious, asking questions about familial needs as end of life approaches, and making accommodations on visitation policies, presence of particular religious/spiritual leaders, or expedited burial arrangements when needed.
Team Reflection
Jocelyn was a 12-week-old baby girl of Guatemalan origin with Trisomy 18 who was intubated with an advance care plan protecting her from cardiac resuscitation and indicating comfort-focused care. Her mother spoke Spanish as her primary language and was unable to finish high school because of financial strain. Her mother immigrated to the United States about 1 year ago. Jocelyn’s father was also involved in her life; he worked 90 hours per week to support his family and largely deferred to Jocelyn’s mother for medical decision-making and caretaking. After multiple goals-of-care conversations with the pediatric intensive care unit team and the PPC team, they learned that her mother viewed a life supported by machines as suffering and wished to protect her daughter from this experience. Given her goals, the teams and her mother worked together to make the loving decision to intensively focus on comfort while discontinuing life-sustaining therapies, allowing a natural death. However, over the following 2 weeks, Jocelyn’s mother repeatedly express hesitation about the timing of extubation. The palliative care team continued to meet with Jocelyn and her mother daily to ensure that her symptoms were being managed during this interim period. The palliative care social worker helped Jocelyn’s mother with funeral arrangements and communication with other family members regarding the plan of care. Nonetheless, her mother continued to express hesitation about setting a time for extubation. Eventually, the providers felt frustrated with the mother, expressing concern that Jocelyn’s suffering was being prolonged. After careful communication, including further discussion and active listening, Jocelyn’s mother was able to voice an unspoken fear. Specifically, she had heard rumors from friends that Jocelyn’s ashes would be mixed with other people’s remains following cremation and that she would not be able to keep the remains of her child. She also expressed worries that her child’s organs would be used to save the lives of “wealthy Americans.” Her mother expressed feelings of embarrassment regarding her fears to the provider and communicated gratitude for the opportunity to disclose and work through her concerns. The palliative care team collaborated closely with the funeral home to ensure that all of the mother’s concerns were addressed. Ultimately, while intensively focusing on Jocelyn’s comfort, life-sustaining therapies were discontinued, and she died peacefully, surrounded by her loving family. Her mother later notified the team that she was able to be present while Jocelyn was cremated and that she keeps her daughter’s remains at her bedside.